Recently i received an email from mei nv hui saying that men are a happy creatures, which i think is quite true, they are just too simple and less worry ...

The statements in the email shown below:

 

MEN ARE JUST HAPPIER PEOPLE 

If Laura, Kate and Sarah go out for lunch, they will call each other Laura, Kate and  Sarah.
If Mike, Dave and John go out, they will affectionately refer to each other as Fat Boy, Godzilla and Four-eyes.

 

When the bill arrives, Mike, Dave and John will each throw in  £ 20, even though it's only for  £ 32.50.  None of them will have anything smaller and none will actually admit they want change back.
When the girls get their bill, out come the pocket calculators.

 

A man will pay  £ 2 for a  £1 item he needs.
A woman will pay  £ 1 for a  £ 2 item that she  doesn't need but it's on sale.

 

A man has seven items in his bathroom:  toothbrush and toothpaste, shaving cream, razor, a bar of soap, deodorant and a  towel
The average number of items in the typical woman's bathroom is 337.  A man would not be able to identify more than 20 of these  items.

 

A woman has the last word in  any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. <to all men, beware of the sentence that come out from your mouth>

 

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

 

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. <To all men, please take note>
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

 

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, but she does.  <Aspecting that she wont change, means men cannot aspect women to do houehold, as they will did all that for their gf, and willing to spend before they married, so to all men please spend for your wife after married>

 

A woman will dress up to go shopping, water the plants, empty the  rubbish , answer the phone, read a  book, and get the mail.
A man will dress up for weddings and  funerals. <Totally agree, or they will dress up to attend their gf's gathering or may be the first gathering>

Men wake up as good-looking as they went to bed. <as good looking or as messy as they went to bed?>
Women somehow deteriorate during the night.

 

Ah, children.  A woman knows all about her children.  She knows about  dentist appointments and romances, best friends, favourite foods, secret fears and hopes and dreams.
A man is vaguely aware of some short people living in the house  <This is a sad case>

呆着想着，到地自己要的是什么！

要的是站在职场上先锋，

还是轻轻松松朝九晚五的工作。
以前的我，认为自己是属于前者，

然而在这几个月来的经历，

我开始重新审问内心的自己。

原来我向往的生活并不是高高在上的职位，

我愿成为单纯的笨女人。笨笨的。。。
我开始领悟我姐说的心灵滋养。聆听内心的声音。。。
我现在开始摸索，开始了解。。。

终有一天能知道要的是什么

慢下脚步。。。听闻周围的声音。。。重新找回自己。。